“Behind this reluctant smile, I hide my pain and sorrow, Behind this devilish look, I hide my tears of sadness, And behind this shattered body, I hide my broken heart. – Iqan” is the best quote that describes my first attempt at smiling again then. I was ‘happy’ that I was doing something positive, even though nothing in my life was going well. Work was miserable, I had to work overtime every day, and my marriage was as good as over. You know what is the best thing about this Feng Shui tip? Yup! A smile is free-of-charge, and you can start smiling immediately! Anyone can smile at anywhere and at anytime and at anybody. There are no prerequisites.

But why do I call this the biggest Feng Shui tip that changed my life? Of course I did not know this then, but you see, as soon as people see you smiling, they instantly like you. This is true! After a while, I did notice that people seemed to treat me better. Why? Because when I smile at you, you will naturally smile back. It is your natural instinct, or at worst you will smile back at me out of courtesy. And when you smile, the upward pull of your mouth sends happiness energy to your brain, and you feel better too. And so you will treat me better. See how marvelous this Feng Shui tip is?

“在这不情愿的笑容背后，我隐藏着我的痛苦和悲伤，在这个‘魔鬼般’的表情背后，隐藏着我悲伤的眼泪，在这个破碎的身体背后，隐藏着我的伤痕 – Iqan”。 这个引语描述我第一次尝试微笑时的心情。即使那时后， 我生活里并没有任何事情进展顺利，我仍然觉得‘高兴’， 应为我做了积极的行动。工作虽然很糟糕，我每天加班，再加上我的婚姻早已破碎， 尽管如此， 我还可以做点什么， 难以置信吧！这是不是该‘高兴’的理由？ 读者们， 你们知道这个风水提示最棒的是什么？对了！微笑是免费的，你可以立即开始微笑！任何人都可以随时随地微笑， 而且你可以对任何人微笑！没有先决条件！

但， 我为什么称这是风水提示为改变我生活的最大风水提示？我当时没去想它， 不过现在我很清楚， 任何人看到你脸带微笑，他们立刻就会喜欢你！ 真的！我注意到人们似乎更好地对待我。为什么？因为当我对你微笑时，你会自然地回我微笑。这是人的自然反应， 就算那个时刻你不想回我的笑， 不过你不得不， 否则你会显得很没有礼貌呀！ 哈哈！ 因为你微笑，你的嘴角向上拉动会给你的大脑带来幸福的能量，你心情自然变好， 所以你也会对我好。

“A smile is the prettiest thing you can wear.” is the next progression in my learn to smile training. As soon as I realised that people really treated me better when I smiled at them, guess what is Feng Shui move that is also free-of-charge? Yes, you are correct! I practiced a megawatt smile! You know who has a megawatt smile? Cameron Diaz! She dazzles! And I also remember that our local models were once featured in ‘Her World’ magazine, and if I remember correctly, the writer wrote that both Zoe and Fann were born to be superstars because they had smiles that went all the way up to light up their eyes! So I sat in front of the mirror, and I practiced and practiced to get my smile up from my mouth to my eyes. The trick was to squint your eyes a little whilst you pull the corners of your mouth upwards. But you seriously need to practice because you are going to look ridiculous if this is not done properly! To make this easier, it really helps if you think of a happy occasion or a happy experience when you are practicing your megawatt smile. Practice makes perfect!

“微笑是你可以穿的最漂亮的附属品”是我学习微笑训练的下一个步骤。当我意识到很多人应为我的微笑真的对我更好，你们猜猜我的下一个风水动作？对了！我练习如何给一个兆瓦级的微笑！你知道谁有兆瓦级的微笑？Cameron Diaz！ 她是闪亮之星！！！ 还有， 我记得两位本地模特曾在‘Her World’杂志上被访问，如果我没有记错， 作者是这么写的：  这两位本地女王Zoe和Fann是天生的超级明星，因为她们的笑容很闪烁，点亮她们的眼睛！于是， 我坐在镜子前，练习又练习又练习，如何把我的笑容从我的嘴巴‘传’到我的眼睛。诀窍是在你将嘴角向上拉的同时眯起你的眼睛。但是， 读者们， 你们需要练习一下，因为如果做得不好，你们会显得很荒谬。为了更容易抓住诀窍，如果在练习的同时， 你可以想想一个好笑的场合或一个好笑的体验，你肯定会在训练兆瓦级的微笑时给与很大的帮助。