I consider myself to have ‘average’ Feng Shui knowledge, much of my prowess I attribute to The Inspirational Writer, whose Feng Shui skills are simply amazing!!! Me? I’m just a nobody. 🕵 My parents did not practice Feng Shui, I did not study Feng Shui in school, my husband and his family did not use Feng Shui either. I heard that Feng Shui is something that people use to get rich, but I had no idea how that concept works. I was introduced to Feng Shui when I first attended a Feng Shui talk by The Inspirational Writer, then going on to read books written by The Inspirational Writer. Like I said, I attribute everything good to The Inspirational Writer. Yet, I have loaned those books (the very same books that I have read), to my friends and ex-colleagues, and for some of them, as I will tell you in ______, I have even gone to their home to help them answer their Feng Shui queries. Why did I do to such an extent? Because I know exactly how it feels to be unsure. It is a helpless feeling to be unsure. 🤔❓ Unsure if I am holding the compass correctly ❓, unsure if I have interpreted the directions correctly ❓. Did Feng Shui work? The results varied. A couple of them told me that they did not feel that anything has changed. For those who felt that things did improve a little, they asked me why the duration of the positive change lasted only a few weeks. My answer to this is in  ___, where I tell you that if you want good Feng Shui, you have to keep investing in actions that will make Feng Shui work! Taking action is easy. You just do it. What will make your Feng Shui really, really work is being consistent in taking action. Take action, take action, take action! Never stop taking action!

Do I consider myself successful? Yes, I daresay I have achieved 100% (100%!!!) success defined in Feng Shui terms! Before I elaborate on that, I want to first tell you that I define success as:

1. getting yourself in order, and
2. getting you and your spouse’s family in order, and
3. helping other people outside of your family members. The more people you help, the merrier!

What good is success if you only take care of yourself and your family? We all know it’s not easy to help others. Everyone is already so busy with ourselves and our own family, where do we find the energy, time and money to help others? Especially so if ‘the others’ are not related to us at all, and we have nothing to gain from helping them!

Here’s my checklist of my ‘small-scale’ success:

MYSELF
√ Living my childhood ‘ambition’ of being a good-life housewife
√ Still look good for my age because of regular massage, spa and facials

HUSBAND
√ Husband is very successful in his career
√ Husband has a good network of friends and associates
√ People now want to be friends with my husband (and me) because he is working in top Management

AS A COUPLE
√ We love and support each other
√ Fully paid off the mortgage of our KIA car
√ Fully paid off the loan of our HDB mansionette
√ Not having to worry about money, and savings in the bank
√ We enjoy peace and quiet in our daily life
√ We are generally healthy

WITHIN OWN FAMILY NUCLEUS
√ Filial to my parents-in-law, spending quality time with them regularly
√ Made peace with my own parents, whom I fell out with when I was younger
√ We give our parents money on a regular basis

OUTSIDE FAMILY NUCLEUS
√ We are doing animal rescue
√ We regularly donate money to worthy causes
√ We even had the good fortune to contribute money to build a temple
√ We do regular volunteer work in Old Folk’s Home
√ We do ad-hoc volunteer work on a needs basis

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT AND MORE
√ Published writing for an international magazine title
√ ‘Movie role’ in a Buddhist documentary talking about Animal Liberation
√ Interviewed by, and written about (not just once, but twice!!! ✌✌), for our participation in volunteer work
√ Bought our second property (a 2-bedroom condo) to rent out: passive income
√ We often win the lottery
√ Been on 3 pilgrimages
√ This website that will help ordinary people (It’s what I want to do!!!)

IN THE PIPELINE
√ Building a dog shelter
√ Writing books
√ Full sponsorship for Old Folks Home to go on an excursion
√ Feature in a documentary on National TV

So you see, we are only in our 40s, and we have achieved ALL the aspirations of good Feng Shui: Successful career, Personal development, Healthy, Active and passive income, Recognised for our good work, Happy Patriarch and Matriarch, Asset accumulation and Filial to our parents (both sides). So I say the Feng Shui skills of The Inspirational Writer absolutely rocks! The Inspirational Writer deserves all the credit! 😘💕💋💝🌸🌺💐

I am in awe of what my husband and I have achieved! Wow!!! Is it really us??? I know that there are many people out there who have achieved what we have and more, and you are probably thinking: “Chey! What’s the big deal?”, but the thing is that IT IS A BIGGG DEAL!!! My husband and I, we are nobodys!!! We are not particularly talented 🤹, nor are we particularly good looking 👨👸 or eloquent 🗣🗣. We are more likely to put our foot in our mouths, than to say something politically correct that will spear us into the next millennium!!! Our parents are not famous, nobody wants to suck up to us, we don’t have particularly good connections, nor do we have ‘that kind of money’ to splurge around to buy us connections or goodwill! What made us so lucky? It is because we made Feng Shui work! 🙌

But I have been to other very successful people’s home, and they do not have a single Feng Shui item in their home. Some of them live in houses that do not adhere to good Feng Shui principles, and worse still, their house is stuffed full of clutter! 🎮🚴📢🎺📻📞☎💿📻🔦🔭📡🔧🔩🗜🛠🔳🔲⚱🗑 How then do these friends get to be very successful??? As a matter of fact, a couple of them are many times more successful than my husband and I!!!

I have drawn my own conclusions about Feng Shui. You see, Feng Shui is a kind of ‘energy’ that helps us to nurture and amplify our own energy. You have to believe that inside all of us, we all have this innate ability to Amplify Our Own Power (AOOP)! It is my belief that all of us are born with some form of energy that will propel us forward in life. Along the way, this inborn energy gets enhanced by either or all of the following:

1. encouragement by parents, teachers and spouse
2. attunement into oneself to control and manifest this innate energy
3. how well life pans out for us, for example, do we get rewarded after we put our energy into a project
4. what energy we feed our brain and souls
5. our ability to bounce back and replenish any used-up internal energy
6. using Feng Shui
7. having a defined goal in life

etc.

Similarly, this inborn energy can be depleted by either or all of the following:

1. mixing with negative people
2. inaction and being lazy
3. how poorly life rewards us, for example, after we put our fullest energy into a project, the credit goes to someone else
4. not feeding our brain and souls with positive vibes
5. inability to bounce back and replenish any used-up internal energy
6. wandering aimlessly through life

etc.

How else can we explain why people can succeed without even believing in, or practicing Feng Shui? To make my theory easy to understand, I’ve created a chart:

Now all we have to do is to match the AOOP ability of the individual to the goals of the individual:

I am definitely born a ‘weak-ability amplifier’. My abilities were never tested or given a chance to grow when I was younger. Why? Because when I was growing up, my parents did not instill the ‘go-getter’ ability in me. They were conservative and traditional parents who believed that we will do alright in life, if we work hard (not work smart), keep a low profile (the more high profile you are, the more unnecessary attention you draw to yourself), and saved our hard-earned money (don’t invest in anything that does not guarantee the principal sum of money). Worse still, my last chance at ‘changing my personality’ in my formative late teenage years was completely squashed by a definitive statement made by my father to me: “All of you, my daughters, will never marry very rich men. Very rich men have high taste, and so they will not even look twice at you girls. You girls just don’t have the X factor.”

So that was that. As I told you, I did not have the good fortune of meeting ‘go-getter’ personalities. You know, those high-energy people who say “You can do it! Try! Never say never! Go on, go, go, go!!!” So I believed that I would just live an ordinary life, and I did not even bother to dream about anything but living an ordinary life. Could I do well in an ordinary life? Of course! My goals were small, and I was born with the ability to live life well and fully. If you look at my chart above, I was born weak-ability to amplify power PLUS I had small goals, so of course I would make it through! However: this does not mean that my life was free of obstacles. Even if your goals were small, you would still face obstacles. Life is full of obstacles! 🕳💥💣

But because the cosmics_____, I was lucky to attend the Feng Shui talk ____ and I went on to change my life! Somewhere along the way, I attained the small goals in life, and without knowing it, I upped my goal in life to NORMAL, then to CHALLENGING. It was not a conscious decision, it just became. (Honestly, after you achieve your small goals, what else can you do but to set a bigger goal?) But I was lucky, I was willing to try Feng Shui, and therefore I could achieve goal after goal after goal in life. As I said earlier, our innate ability to Amplify Our Own Power (AOOP) gets enhanced by how well life pans out for us. So since I got rewarded after I put my energy into a goal, and I kept getting rewarded for putting in my energy into more goals, eventually my weak-ability amplifier internal power became more powerful, and I grew into a medium-ability amplifier person. I did not just wake up and say I am going to become medium-ability. You have to live through the process. I only wish that I had learnt how to make Feng Shui work earlier, so I could have boosted my own amplifier energy faster and stronger. As you can see from my chart above, it took me for than 15 years to power myself up! That’s too long! 😓 Read my thoughts on time is of the essence____!

But what’s done cannot be undone. I can only say that I had done my best, and I would just have to do better and faster going forward to make up for lost time. For the rest of you, dear reader, I’m very happy to share my experiences with you. You definitely will not take 15 years to be stronger and better in boosting your own amplifier energy because I have created this website to help you!!

Does Feng Shui work? Yes, it does! Ordinary people can make it work too! Make Feng Shui Work!

If I did not use Feng Shui, would I have succeeded? The chances would have been very, very slim, and definitely I would not have achieved it all by age 40. I probably would have banged my head here and there until I reach 60 years old, and perhaps even then, who knows if I would even have progressed to CHALLENGING goals. But I’ll get there before I die. Die die I will get it all done! 😅 

So for my friends who attained success in life without believing in Feng Shui, or without using Feng Shui? They most likely had at least medium-power amplifier ability, so they sailed through SMALL, NORMAL and CHALLENGING goals when I was still struggling. So lucky them! 😘🍀