You must constantly do a reality check of your life: “Is everything ok? Are my family members ok? And more importantly, am I ok?” In my Feng Shui journey, I often see how a stuck situation can do harm to people. I was a victim of stuck circumstances too! It’s true that everyone is busy, and because human beings are the most resilient, we always tell ourselves that we can do it, even when things start to get overwhelming. Pressure builds up, we add on more, then more… and then boom! 💥 Everything collapses! More on that later. My sweet friend became the sole breadwinner in her home, because her husband was not mature enough to shoulder that responsibility. It’s not that my sweet friend had an easy time at work, or that she enjoyed her work, but she had a more responsible kind of character, and she was realistic enough to know how the real world worked. Mortgages needed to be paid, and food needs to be on the table. And she also knew that she wanted a peaceful home, so she was willing to hold her tongue when she had to bear the brunt of the ravings of her insecure husband. It’s not that her husband did not love her, or that she loved him more, but the reality is that alot of effort, patience, maturity, and understanding is needed to make a relationship work! Good Feng Shui is about doing the best that you can when you are in a stuck situation. First to cope, and also to find a way out of stuck.

你必须经常检讨你的生活：“一切都还好吗？我的家人都好吗？更重要的是，我还好吗？”在我的风水旅途中，我经常看到人们因为被卡住而受到伤害。我也是被卡住过的受害者！确实，每个人都很忙，而且因为人类是最有忍耐性的，即使事情开始变得势不可挡，我们总是告诉自己我们可以做到，。压力增加，我们增加更多，然后更多……然后。。。 爆炸！ 💥 一切都崩溃了！稍后会详细讲解。我的好朋友成了她家里唯一的养家糊口的人，因为她的丈夫还不够成熟，无法承担这一个责任。这不是因为我的好朋友有一份轻松的工作，或者是她喜欢她的工作，但她有一种责任的性格，而且她非常现实而且知道解现实世界是如何运作的。组屋贷款需要支付，食物需要摆在桌上。而且她也知道她想要一个安宁的家，所以当那没有安全感的丈夫对她咆哮时，她不得不忍受。这并不是说她的丈夫不爱她，或者她更爱她，在现实中，一个良好的关系是需要很多努力，耐心，成熟和理解来建立的！好风水就是在遇到困境时尽力做到最好。首先是要应对，并找到一种解决困境的方法。