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Stuck In The Middle (My Best Friend) 被卡到(好朋友)



Does Feng Shui work if you are stuck? No! What do I mean by stuck? On a simple level, it could mean that you get stuck in the human jam, stuck in the mrt train, or stuck in traffic. I know people yabber about being stuck on the Pan Island Expressway (PIE) every morning during their drive to work. So what can you do to escape this kind of stuck? Wake up earlier, and leave your house earlier! Miss the peak hours, miss the jam. So you see, it’s a simple stuck because you can get out of it so easily. Then there is the difficult kind of stuck. Your mother-in-law does not like you, and your pitiful husband is stuck in the middle. You are dating a man who gives you the cold-hot-cold treatment, and because you love him so much, you can’t leave him. You marry a man, who was not the best kind of guy for you, but because you think that with love, he will change after marriage. But he doesn’t change. Bummer. So you see, these are a more difficult kind of stuck because you love him, he loves you. Where emotions are involved, it is extremely difficult to get out of stuck situations. Agree?
要好风水实现, 你知道最怕什么吗? 被卡住!!!  被卡住是什么意思? 简单的,被困在长长的人龙,地铁列车卡住,或交通阻塞。 很多人每天早上都会唠叨在开车上班的路途被卡在泛岛高速公路 (PIE) 上。 在这种卡住的情况, 我们能做些什么? 早点起床,早点出门呀! 避开高峰时段,避开繁忙交通。 你看,这是一个很简单的卡住情况,因为你可以很容易地摆脱它。 有另一种很困难的卡住状况, 就没有那么容易拜托。 这样的状况包括: 你的家婆不喜欢你, 你不喜欢你家婆, 你可怜的丈夫被卡在中间。 或你和一个忽冷忽热的男人拍拖, 每天你担心他是不是要与你分手, 但因为你非常爱他,你离开不了他。 或你嫁给一个其实在你心中不是一个完美的男人,但你以为应为有爱,他在婚后会为你改变。但他并没有改变。这以上的情况是不是很困难的卡住情况? 在涉及情感的情况,摆脱卡住困境是非常困难的。 读者们, 你们同意吗?


When I was working in the Educational sector, I got to know her. She was the sweetest and kindest thing, and though she had to work long hours in a mundane role, she would still take time to teach and explain to me (and many, many other colleagues who called her for all sorts of nonsense) how to post entries in the accounting system SAP. If we still did not get it after she explained to us by phone, she would, without fail, ask us to go meet her at her desk and she would show us using her computer. Mind you, she was just an administrative executive! And she was sweet to her husband too, who I absolutely abhor for always putting her down in public. He did not have a stable job, and would quit his job every year because he could not swallow his pride. I tolerated him because she was really the best kind of girl who would never take advantage of anyone, and I know that in this world, nothing beats a heart of gold and I swore to treasure her forever!


当时我在教育界做工,她各型很温柔,从来没脾气而且心地很善良。如果我们不会用公司的SAP会计软件,她在电话里很有耐性的教我们。如果还不明白,她会放工后抽时间,叫我(不止我,她也对很多很多同事很好)过去她坐的位置,然后用她的电脑示范给我看!这并不是她的工作!她的上司 – 那部门的经理 – 个性才没有我的朋友那么好,牵着我们的手!好友在家也是很温柔的太太。 可惜。。。 我讨厌她老公!I am disgusted 我很厌恶

应为好友人善良,她可恶的先生时常在朋友或公共场合大声喊她笨蛋!好友曾经说过已经嫁给他,不想吵吵闹闹过日子,所以就忍着。你看,心底好的人我去哪里找?我对自己承诺我永远珍惜她的友谊!