Did I disappoint you? I’m very sorry! 😭 Did you think that the Author of this website talking about good Feng Shui would be perfect? To be honest, I really wanted to be THAT person who did all the correct things in life! And I really wanted to do all the correct things in every stage of my life, in my 20s, in my 30s, in my 40s. But I did not, because at any point in life, my life circumstances changed, and I needed to re-balance and re-shift my priorities in life. This is true! I wish that at that time after graduation, it wasn’t the recession. Oh, why didn’t I time my graduation to match the recovering economy? Why didn’t my parents sponsor me to stay back in Australia for another 2 years to wait out the recession? Why not? They could well afford to do that! I had classmates whose parents told them to stay on and to continue studying for their Honours and Masters. I wish I did not marry my husband who did not want to live in Australia. I asked him to apply for Australian Permanent Residency (PR) with me then (back in 1990s, we had a higher chance of being granted PR because we graduated from an Aussie University), but he only wanted to return here as soon as possible to look after his parents, and to pay them back for his study loan. I wish I could have landed an easy peasy job that paid me well. I wish I could have earned money easily, so I could splurge on designer clothes 👗, and I wish I could have spent my mornings in gyms exercising to look fit and fabulous 👙, and have people turn their heads as I sashayed down Orchard Road flashing my expensive bag and tossing my never flyaway hair 👸. I wish I could have dined in fancy restaurants, sipping lemon-flavoured water out of polished wine glasses 🍸, and have the wait staff know me by name: “Oh, Ms Author, welcome again! Let us show you to your favourite table”, as they bowed and bowed to me in utmost courtesy. And I wish that I could have repaid Mum back for the money she forked out for my University studies, and I also wished I could give her tons of money, so she could go around boasting how smart and generous her “graduate” daughter was, and I really wanted to give her a no-credit-limit Invitation-Only Platinum supplementary credit card! 💳 But instead of all these ‘my life is complete’ scenerios, what did rascal me do? I stopped giving her the monthly $200 allowance! Am I proud to tell you this? No, of course not. But my point in telling you this is because I want you to know that everyone has their worries and burdens, and sometimes we do things that we need to. Some things we can handle, some things we just can’t. We try again, and we still can’t. So we live in regret about those things that we couldn’t. To make Feng Shui work, you must first learn about ‘survival skills’____. You also have to learn that you must do what you have to first. Let me tell you how to make Feng Shui work!