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Paying Tribute To Someone Special (2) 贡献(二)



At this juncture, I want to pay tribute again to the same very, very special someone_____. Dear reader, trust me, it is a terrible way to be living as a volcano waiting to erupt. It’s hell. Those times when my mood blows up at the slightest aggravation. All the screaming and shouting did nothing to ease the numbness and the hopelessness of my aching heart 💔 and broken soul. 😭 Why is life so unfair to me? I was born rich, but why don’t I have money? I was a cutie teenager, but why am I fat and pimply now? Winning an argument with the service staff made me feel ‘powerful’ in my powerless world, but I did not feel happy at all. Deep down in my heart, I know that I am really without power, and that the cycle will just repeat itself tomorrow. Someone yells at me at work, so I yell back at someone in his work. Leading a roller coaster life everyday! 🎢 Emotions up ⬆ and down ⬇ everyday!!! 😱 This is a form of suffering indeed. God, please help me never to go to those times! 🙏

在这个时候,我想再次向同样非常非常特别的人致敬____。 亲爱的读者,相信我,如果生活象是一座等待爆发的火山是一种可怕的方式。 这是地狱。 那些时候,当时我的心情经常会因为小事而爆发。 所有的尖叫和呐喊都没有减轻我的无奈,麻木的破碎灵魂和痛苦的心灵💔。 😭为什么生活对我不公平? 我出生在富裕的家庭,但为什么我没有钱? 我是一个可爱的少年,但为什么我现在胖胖而有暗疮? 与服务人员争论让我在我的无力世界中感到“强大”,但我一点也不高兴。 在我的内心深处,我知道我真的没有力量,而且这个循环将在明天重演。 当有人在工作时喊我是,我会对另一个人大喊回到。 每天就像坐过山车!🎢 情绪上升⬆下降⬇每天! 这确实是一种痛苦。 上帝,请帮我,不要让我回到那些时代!🙏


I was lucky because I had the good fortune to stumble across the advertisement for that Feng Shui talk! And I was even luckier because the effervescent speaker inspired me enough to want to “Do Something!”. And later on in my Feng Shui journey, I bought a book that she wrote, and because she (the effervescent speaker) had a knack for writing as well, she inspired me again with her encouraging words to try! Her message was clear: “Try Feng Shui!!!”. So as ‘luck’ (actually I know now that ‘luck’ was myself sending out energy to the Cosmos) would have it, the Cosmics aligned itself one fateful day, and gave me one chance to try Feng Shui. I grabbed the chance (thank God I grabbed it!), and as they say, the rest is history! Yay! 😅 Whew! You know, those roller coaster days when I was so very obsessed trying to out-shout and out-smart people when arguing over nonsensical issues… I was wrong. Big mistake. Today, I give you a very good piece of advice: If you want to make Feng Shui work, DON’T GET OBSESSED WITH ARGUMENTS OF ANY KIND! Don’t waste your precious energy and your precious time playing this ‘stupid game of pride’ and this stupid game called ‘See Who Wins’. Even if you win, your sacred energy is all messed up, and you need to tune it back again! And remember that your time is also very precious____. And regarding whether I should give other people a break? My answer to that now is the same advice that I dished out in Survival Chic____: Be Practical And Realistic! 

Sparring Opponent Do You Intend To Keep The Relationship Due Course of Action
Colleague Yes, you still need to work tomorrow Give him a break
Supervisor Yes, he is still doing your Performance Appraisal Give him a break
Spouse Yes, you are legally married Give him a break
Boyfriend Depends on whether or not you can survive without him Give him a break
Service Staff Trust me, the chances of seeing him again is very slim if you don’t patronise that shop again Give him a break
Someone Important To You Important. Enough said. Give him a break
Someone Not Important To You Not Important. Enough Said. Give him a break
You have not decided on the relationship You have not decided on the relationship Give him a break

 

LOL! 😂 Why not? It doesn’t really matter who wins, who loses. Does it? If you can, give him or her a break. If he or she can, ask them if they can give you a break! What is important is that everyone moves on, and we don’t waste our precious time and precious energy quarreling. Why? In my journey in making Feng Shui work, I have discovered that good Feng Shui will open up so many doors for you, and it will give you a whole lot of opportunities that you never dreamed possible!!! You will be so busy grabbing opportunities that you don’t even have time to go to the toilet (literally), what more argue with people?! You have better things to do! Yes, you really do! 😘 REPEAT AFTER ME: I HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO! YES, I DO!!! 💪😍😍 And to whom do I owe this wonderful realisation? Of course it’s the same very, very special someone! Thank you for giving me my peaceful life back. Because I am sane, because my mind is clear, because my heart is unobstructed, because I am not obsessed with hate, because I am really doing better things now, I am so grateful to you! 🙏😍🌸🌺 God bless you and your family!

我很幸运,因为我很福分在有幸在偶然的机会看到这场风水讲座的广告!更幸运的是,因为这位旖旎的演讲者激励我想要“做点什么!”。 后来在我的风水之旅,我买了一本她写的书,因为她(旖旎的演讲者)也有写作的诀窍,她用鼓舞人心的话再次激励我尝试! 她的信息很明确:“试试风水!!!”。 所以,“运气”(实际上我现在知道’运气’是我自己发出给宇宙的量)总会有的,宇宙能量最完美的那一天,并给了我一次尝试风水的机会。 我抓住了机会(感谢上帝,我抓住了它!),正如他们所说,其余的都是历史! 好极了!呼! 你知道,那些过山车般的日子,当我非常沉迷于在无意义的争论,试图用智取赢得别人……我错了。 彻底错了.今天,我给你一个非常好的建议:如果你想让风水实现,不要沉迷于跟任何人争吵!不要浪费你宝贵的精力和宝贵的时间来玩这个“愚蠢的自豪感游戏”,这个愚蠢的游戏叫做“看谁赢”。即使你赢了,你的神圣能量也都搞砸了,你需要再调回来!请记住,你的时间也非常珍贵______。关于我是否应该让别人一个机会?我现在的答案就是我在生存之道中所讲的同样的建议____:务必要实用而现实!

对手 你打算保持关系吗? 下一步
同事 要,明天还需要工作 给个机会
上司 要,他仍在做你的表现评估 给个机会
配偶 要,你们是合法结婚 给个机会
男朋友 取决于你是否能够在没有他的情况下生存 给个机会
服务人员 相信我,再次见到他的机会非常渺茫 给个机会
对你很重要的人 重要。 说够了。 给个机会
对你不重要的人 不重要。 说够了。 给个机会
你还没有决定关系 你还没有决定关系 给个机会

很好笑,为什么不?谁输谁赢并不重要。是吗?如果可以的话,给他或她一个机会。如果他或她能够做到,问他们是否可以给你一机会!重要的是每个人都继续前进,我们不会浪费宝贵的时间和宝贵的能量争吵。为什么?在我实现好风水的旅途中,我发现好风水会为你打开这么多的门,它会给你很多机会,你从来没有想到过!你会忙着抓住机会,甚至没有时间上厕所(真的),还有什么时间跟别人争论?!你有更好的事情要做!是的,你真有更好地事要做!重复我说的:我有更好的事情要做!是的,我真的有!!!是谁让我认识到这个美好的事实?当然,是同一个非常非常特别的人!谢谢把平静的生活还给我。因为我是理智的,因为我的头脑清楚,因为我的心灵是畅通无阻的,因为我没有沉迷于仇恨,因为我现在真的做更好的事,我非常感谢你!上帝保佑你和你的家人!