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In _____ I told you that staying stagnant and being in a stuck situation is bad Feng Shui. And when you are in such a situation, the worst thing you can do is nothing. If you choose to do nothing about your situation, the only way you will (can) go is down, down, down! That’s bad. But I understand. It’s hard. I have personally lived through those days when I was so poor. All the wish and wishes couldn’t save me, and all the good daydreams won’t help. I was so stuck! But what will worsen the situation is waiting and hoping for someone to save you. That’s not going to happen. It might happen, it might take a while, or it might never happen. Who knows? There is a better way! You can save yourself! The crux of the matter is that it’s still you and only you who can do it!!! Everybody has their problems, and though they might be able to help, they won’t be able to put in as much effort as you yourself. You know the saying: ‘Someone’s effort is a reflection of their interest in you’? I say: “Why put yourself out there to be helped, at the mercy of how much other people are interested in you”? Screw that! Do it yourself! 💪
在_____,我说如果你在日常生活中停滞不前, 好风水不可能实现。如果你处在这种状况, 什么都不做是最糟糕的! 情况只会更恶化! 但是我明白, 真的很难! 我也知道呀, 穷是一个不好玩的地方。 穷是一个连心愿、 愿望或美好的白日梦都无法拯救你的地方。但, 让情况更恶化的是什么都不做, 希望有人拯救你! 不会有人来拯救你! 不是不可能,而是可能需要一段时间,也可能永远不会发生。谁知道?我有一个更好的方法!你来拯救你自己!使用风水也好, 不适用风水也罢! 在____,我会讲解在任何情形, 任何情况, 关键仍然是你。 只有你配合, 你才可以做到! 每个人, 包括名人, 有实力的人————————都有他们的烦恼和压力, 即使你认识他们, 他们暂时抛开自己的烦恼帮助你,但他们无法像你一样投入最大的努力。你知道有句话:’别人为你付出的努力反映了他们对你的兴趣’?我说: “管他们呢! 为什么我要看别人的人情? 我自己做!” 💪


The thing about being miserable is that you can see what is happening, but you cannot find the energy to fix it. I was putting on alot of weight, and my hair was falling in handfuls. I even had pimples! Big fat pimples that had alot of pus inside, those kind!!! 😱 My colleague who sat next to me remarked “The guys whistled when you first joined this company, you know? What has happened to you?”

Anyone with a clear mind will know that change was needed. But being miserable clouds the mind and drains all your energy. You are sucked into a whirl of misery, and struggle as you might, you can’t break free! Everything just goes down, down, down!

On top of all my work problems and my body issues, I also had to deal with a marriage that had disintegrated beyond repair (at that time it seemed like this). My husband and I were no longer on talking terms, because I BLAME HIM.

当时我满脑子只有一个念头:“只要有钱我就会没事,我就能减肥,应为压力大而脱落的头发就会自然生长回,难看的暗疮也会消失!只要我有钱,我就没烦恼,我先生和我破碎的婚姻就会复合。只要我有钱!!!钱是万能的,只要有钱,我就可以修补我人生所的‘洞’!!!”

不过我从没想过这让我痴迷的钱要从哪里来?我要怎么做才可以让更多钱进入我们口袋? 我只是痴迷的‘要钱’ (我是否以为钱会从天而降?!!!), 满头脑只‘要钱’, 其他的, 我都没去想, 所以我人生就这样卡住! 被卡住的那几年, 我的人生只能往下, 往下, 往下! ⬇⬇⬇😱

这就是我当年最大的错。你们可千万别浪费时间空渴望钱的来临。希望是需要你的实际付出的!你越早发觉这个道理,你就可以快快搭上火车了! 🚝 嗯!